When I was pregnant with Jackson, Shane and I made a promise to one another that with all the craziness that was heading our way, that we would never forget to reconnect when necessary – this was important to us and crucial to our marriage. When Jackson arrived, we were so lucky to have a date night almost EVERY Friday night (thanks Mom!). Those date nights started fading away once Malia was born. I was too tired, Shane was too busy and my mom got a new job which made it harder for her to get away to watch both kids.
We have begun to realize that we really need to have a date night once a month –and we HAVE to make it a priority. I was even inspired by Carolyn at The Kipper House, where this mom of 3 plans a date night once a month. I figure if she’s got 3 kids and ZERO family nearby to babysit them – I can make our date nights happen!
Our date night for the month of May fell on Cinco De Mayo –which also happened to be our 5-year engagement anniversary. My mom took both kids for a sleepover at her house and Shane and I spent the evening like we were dating again. It was so nice to hold hands, laugh, kiss, have in-depth talks without interruption and honestly, just reconnect and remember WHY we fell in love.
We started out using a Groupon I purchased at COA Mexican Eatery. We got a flight of 3 tequilas and 2 appetizers. The tequila was disgusting – but the food was pretty good. We then had plans to go see the Avengers at the Cinerama– but since it was opening weekend (poor planning on my part), the line was around the block – no thanks. So on a whim we went to Wasabi Bistro and had drinks (best Margarita of my life by the way – who knew a Sake Margarita would be it!?). We sat and talked and didn’t even eat sushi (what’s wrong with us!) for over 2 hours. At this point it was my bedtime, but we were trying so hard to make the most of our evening together – so we walked across the street to Ohana's. We felt right at home with our late night snack of Spam Musubi and a Primo Beer.
The night was perfect and I am so excited for date night in June!
Tequila Tasting with yummy appetizers….
Seriously BEST Margarita ever…at a Japanese Restaurant
Then things got silly at Ohana’s. But that’s okay, because we are serious so much during the week! Time to let loose!